真誠的對待自己?! Treat yourself truly?!

前幾個星期又再看了一次"臥虎藏龍“.當然那些武術的美是不在話下,但吸引我的是片中的角色及對話.在片尾,出現了這句話"真誠的對待自己",聽來是錯綜複雜的滋味.每個人都希望可以真誠的對待自己,聽自己心裡的聲音,做真的自己,可是什麼是"真的自己"呢?大多數的人可能在其他人的身上找自己,在不同的價值觀中找自己,用自己的直覺找自己,但這些都不完全,都是一片片的拼圖.我相信只有上帝可以告訴我們什麼是"真的自己".聖經說:"我的肺腑是你所造的,我在母腹中,你以覆蔽我".若要真的知道如何'真誠的對待自己",那應該要先找到自己,所以何不在上帝的眼中,尋找那個未曾見過的自己呢?
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Couple of weeks ago, I watched the movie "Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon" again. No doubting, the martial art is beautiful and amazing but the thing attracted me most is the characters and the context. In the end of movie, there is a sentence filled with mixed feelings, "treat yourself truly". Everyone wants to treat himself truly, to listen to the voice from his heart and to be himself. But what is "true self"? Most of us tries to find ourselves from others' eyes, different values or our own conscience or instinct, but all of these is not complete but pieces of puzzles. I believe only God can tell us who we really are. Bible says: "For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb." If we want to know how to treat ourselves truly, we should, first, find out who we really are. So why not try to find out the "you" who you never see and know through God's eyes.